Have you ever wondered why some guys have all the luck in the world with beautiful women falling all over them? Why some nerds who are just plain looking, broke or even downright ugly have beautiful girls drooling over them? Are they just plain lucky or is there something which you do not know?
Welcome to the world of sexual attraction and picking up women. Once you discover that the art of seduction and attraction can be learnt and more than just merely a game of chance, then you will discover that picking up women can be a breeze.
Yes, some guys are so blessed that they developed their seduction, flirting and attraction skills naturally and they are not even aware of their uncanny skills. They merely think that they have excellent sex appeal.
Too bad most men are not like that and if they want to enjoy the company of beautiful women, then they must study and honed their skills on how to pick up girls.
So let’s start. Here are a few picking up women tips on how to make a good impression to girls and how to make women want to be with you.
For starters, transform your appearance and style up to tip top attention grabbing condition that makes you stand above the rest.
Obviously there is no reason to disadvantage yourself right from the start. It is important that you give a good first impression by the way you dress and present yourself.
Of course you don’t have to look like the hottest movie star or be the guy who spends more time at the mirror preening himself rather than on the women he is trying to pick up.
Go get some latest male fashion magazines to discover the latest fashion trends, visit popular male fashion stores and observe their window displays and even better, copy and improve the dress sense of guys who are already wildly successful with beautiful women.
Although there are some rights and wrongs in the way you present yourself visually like odd color matching, nerdy haircut, wearing garish color clothes etc, you need not worry about that at the moment because what you need to do is to present your very own unique style that is you.
Up to this point, you only need to make the girls think that you are trendy, attractive, reliable and socially intelligent. A reliable socially intelligent man is a very attractive man because women perceive them as confident about themselves and feel good and secure when dating these men.
Next, to carry your clothes elegantly, you need to be healthy and somewhat fit, that is not too fat or thin. Yes, although fat or thin guys or even downright ugly men can be wildly successful in picking up girls if they know to, then wouldn’t you be more successful than them if you have a handsome body and know what they know about picking up girls?
So if you are overweight, then start losing fat now and if you are thin and skinny, then start lifting some weights to put on muscular weight. Hey c’mon, give yourself a supremely unfair advantage over your competitors who are either too fat or too skinny. This is because girls are instinctively attracted to healthy and fit men because of their maternal instinct to pass on your healthy genes to their offsprings and at the same time, are in a better position to protect them.
Are you the type who is very hardworking and the only time you spend outside your work place is commuting to and from your office? Are you one of those who like to stay at home to relax and watch TV and hates going to crowded places?
If you are, then what on earth makes you think that you can pick up women if you do not go out and meet them in the first place?
So go out, hang out and socialize. Go to your favourite social clubs, bars or night clubs. These are the places where people go to to let their hair down and so they are more relaxed especially after some drinks and are easier to chat up and to flirt with.
Besides, these are the places where you can practise your art of seduction skills and techniques to perfection. You don’t even have to use corny ineffective and cheesy pick up lines to chat up women. So start going out a lot and you may be surprised at how easy it is to chat and pick up beautiful women.